Thursday, July 19, 2018

Chosen by the patient.

Chosen by the patient

Chosen by the patient

I first met J. int the spring of 2018. It was my fourth or fifth assignment as a hospice volunteer with a local hospital. I had read the info on the patient before our first meeting. It read: Dementia, sleeps all day gets no medication and is just waiting for death. She was a patient in a home care situation together with other patients. The place was super clean, but exactly because of that, it had a horrible chemical smell to it and I don’t think the caretakers ever opened up a window to get some fresh air through the house. I knocked on the door and a happy looking  woman opened. 
I’m here for J told her and showed off my new volunteer ID card. She then led me into the room where J was resting. The woman was just skin and bones and her mouth wide open as if she had already past away, but her eyes were flickering as if she was looking for something without really seeing anything and for sure not noticing me beside her. Small jolts went through her body and she kept her tiny bony hands crossed over her chest. In between small shakes with her head she would try tighten her lips and suck in air which made a popping sound. I felt very uncomfortable by her presence and the smell in the house made me nauseous. 
I realized that any form of communication was out of the question so I grabbed a bible on the side table and began reading out loud. My voice sounded monotonous and I did a horrible job at reading the text, besides I had a hard time finding something which would sound really upliftings. She was clearly unaware of my presence and I left after she dosed off and fell asleep. I could not wait to get out of there. I had spent just 25 minutes with her and it seemed like a lifetime. 
The next visit a week later did not seem to be more successful and I began thinking that this was all a big mistake and that I was wasting my time. J. was asleep when I came in which made me decide that there was probably no reason for me to be there and I left quickly.  Next Monday the pattern repeated itself. J. was asleep when I arrived and again I questioned what I was doing and if it would not be better if I just left or stopped being a Hospice volunteer all together. I moved the only chair in the room close to her bed and sat down close to her. Intuitively I reached out and covered her hand with mine. Her fingers felt ice cold and bony. I moved the quilted blanket over her hand and rested mine on top to warm her. Her breathing slowed down and the look of her face told me that somehow she felt my touch.  The fact that I felt comfortable holding her hand in mine took me by surprise. “Why did I not think of this before?” I asked myself. There was a glass of water on the side table. It had a straw in it and I reached out, took it to her mouth to let her drink. She seemed to know how to do this and I sensed that she enjoyed the drink. 
On this visit I read: Building a fire, by Jack London. Maybe not the best reading for a patient who is dying but as she was not able to notice what was going on around her I thought it was OK. I began thinking that I had a purpose.

The next visit I did not read for her. I just sat quietly beside her bed holding her hand in mine as she was sleeping and I read books. On my visits with her I plowed though: Creating a life by James Hollis, Seeds by Thomas Merton, The intellectual culture of the Iglulik Eskimos by Knud Rasmussen and, The silence of God by James P. Carse. All the while my sweet patient was in another world, just waiting for the grace of God for her to pass into the next reality. I don’t know when exactly it happened. Maybe it was the day my wife and I by accident strolled into a church in Seattle and attended mass. All of a sudden the overwhelming thought struck me that I had not been there for my hospice patient but she had all the time been there for me. She had taught me to open myself to more compassion and opened my eyes to the healing touch of quiet attendance. The discovery felt to me as if a veil had been lifted and that I had stepped deeper into that space as Dr. C.G.Jung discovered and I quote: “Learn your theories as well as you can,but put them aside when you touch the miracle of the living soul.” I had held myself back thinking that I had a role to play with this patient, and she had shown me that what I had to learn was to give in to the miracle of sitting with her, allowing me to witness her passing and opening up my compassion for the dying. The experience left me with a sense of incredible gratefulness. 

Thursday, July 5, 2018

Gender and Psyche





Gender and Psyche
Archetypal Aspects of Gender Representation
Abstract
The purpose of this article is to explore the archetypal dimensions of gender representation and the transgender experience.  Research is based on the Jungian undestanding of archetypal reality as well as archetypal pattern analysis, the discipline pioneered by Dr. Conforti, which includes field theory and the New Sciences.  The universal roots of the transgender experience will be illuminated through mythology and  viewed through the lens of contemporary culture.  The psychological implications of archetypal possession will be delinated through analysis of The Danish Girl movie as well as by analyzing a dream of a tcontemporary transgender person.

“The spirit is the life of the body seen from within, and the body the outward manifestation of the life of the spirit--the two being really one.” (Jung,1970, CW 10 195 )

The transgender community gathers every year on November 20th, all over the world to remember the trans-women or trans-men who were murdered solely because of their gender presentation. These are victims of violence and hate-crimes committed by people believing they have the right to rid society of anyone who looks wrong or different. This memorial event is always held at night and the names of the murdered are read out loud as the silent crowd stands illuminated by the flickering candles. 
Who are these transgender people and what is the reality they live?  As I went through the Archetypal Pattern Analyst program at the Assisi Institute, I realized that a new look at gender and psyche, especially the transgender presentation could add a new and broader understanding of this issue within the structure of Jungian psychology. 
(Possibly more here…something about APA or Jungian analytical psychology)
The hypothesis of this paper is two-fold.  First, that the transgender archetype demonstrates Psyche’s ability to express itself in the individual as well as in the collective in all of its multiplicity, not simply in the binary polarity of male and female.  Out of the dynamic tension between the two polarities, there often develops new dimensions and these dimensions are the visible range of gender expressions we know as the GLBTQ, (gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, queer). The many shades of expression that exist in gender cultures, parallel to what we typically accept as the heterosexual norm of dominant culture. 
Secondly, my hypothesis also establishes a symbolic dimension to transgender behavior, which in some cases leads to harmful self-mutilation and as such, raises important clinical analytical aspects which are directly related to the work of archetypal recognition as well as to discovering the complexes which may or may not drive gender expression. 
Drawing on archetypal field theory, mythology, and Jungian psychology, this paper explores the dimensions of the transgender experience, both as a natural expression of gender diversity as well as a psychological response.  A discussion of the movie, The Danish Girl, elucidates the transgender experience through the psychological lens. 
The garden 
My writing about transgender issues has been influenced by the resonance I experienced being close to nature. When my wife and I started a community garden with fourteen other neighbors some eight years ago, I had a very limited understanding of how to grow food. Being raised in the middle of Copenhagen, Denmark, I felt an unexpected blessing to learn gardening from scratch. We spent almost every Saturday and Sunday building our ten thousand square feet garden collective and I ended up not only harvesting tomatoes and other vegetables but also enjoying a new knowledge of how nature works.  In the plant world, the most amazing dominants are revealed. Through gardening, I learned the importance of soil management, cross pollination and even transgender plant behavior. I discovered a yellow corn started as a male and in mid-season, as if changing its mind, suddenly became female for the rest of the season. I also noticed how tiny seeds grew to be tall fruit-bearing plants, echoing the basic understanding of pre-existing fields as articulated by Rupert Sheldrake, the development of any plant follows the mandate inherent in the specific field,.  
Fields have a measurable physical effect, according to Sheldrake and are the unseen building blocks in nature. (Sheldrake 1981, p. 3).  His research points to the fact that a ten-foot high sunflower in all its majesty already exists in the tiny sunflower seed. The morphogenetic (Morpho=form, genetic=coming into) field of sunflowers exists outside of space and time, even before there is a seed. We will never find the blue print visible or even present, but in its unfolding of form we know the form exists in the pre-existing field of the plant.
Jung already knew and talked about the pre-existing field as articulated in his “Kindertraume Seminare” (childhood dream seminars 1936-41).   He states that “Children unconsciously already have an adult psychology. The individual is already from birth, or perhaps even before birth, what he will later become.” (Vedfelt 1999, p. 76).
Making connections from biology and into human behavior, we can speak of behavioral morphic fields. Morphic fields work in biology like this: if an organism behaves in an divergent way, then other organisms sometimes will develop in the same way more easily. Once the field of novelty is activated it will accelerate and replicate in a specific direction either beneficial as in evolution or as in cancer, in a destructive way. In behavioural morphic fields, The Stonewall riots of 1969 in San Francisco stands as a striking example of how a perturbation set in motion a whole movement to acknowledge and advance the gay community. Also in San Francisco, the Daughters of Bilitis, a similar perturbation was founded some years earlier. Both novel organizations emerged from the invisibility of oppression into mainstream American culture almost overnight. The gender field had been made visible and the dominant culture changed with it. 
The recent media frenzy around Bruce/Caitlyn Jenner Buzz Bissinger, Caitlin Jenner the full story, Vanity Fair, June 15, 2015, http://www.vanityfair.com/hollywood/2015/06/caitlyn-jenner-bruce-cover-annie-leibovitz?mbid=social_twitter demonstrates the acceleration of the transgender exposure in our culture. 
Using Jungian terminology, I would theorize that once the field has been activated by the specific archetype, there is an increase of intensity in the field around the complex. The morphic resonance acts as the catalyst. This paranormal influence can identify the emergent pattern and facilitate subsequent occurrences of similar patterns. 
Drawing upon my transformational experience in the garden, I began to see the how we humans are connected to the laws of nature.  This realization of interconnectedness spurred me to apply my garden wisdom to the archetypal pattern recognition and translation teachings of The Assisi Institute.

                                          Gender verses sexuality
In this examination of gender and psyche, I look at the archetypal manifestation of what is commonly known as the transgender person. Yet a clarification of terms is needed.  If the outward manifestation of a person appears to be contrary to their anatomical sex it is called transgender representation or preference. Here I rely on the APA taskforce report on gender representation. (American Psychological Association, Task Force on Gender Identity and Gender Variance, 2009. Report of the Task Force on Gender Identity and Gender Variance.)  Not only is there a physical but also a spiritual manifestation of the archetypal aspect. Despite two centuries of modern medical research into the question about why some people are transgendered, no clear answer has emerged about the causation of gender preference.
It is also important to understand the difference between sexual orientation and gender representation. Sexual orientation knows no gender and does not present itself as such. A man can be sexually attracted to another man but does not have to present himself as a female. This is the case with most homosexual relationships. Women do not have to appear as males to be attracted to other women. The sexual attraction or orientation is, as such, completely genderless. It is a myth that a transmale would be sexually attracted only to women and a trans-woman would only seek out males as partners. This, however, is not the case. Human sexuality is independent of gender representation. 
The American Psychological Association clarifies that, “Sexual orientation refers to the sex of those to whom one is sexually and romantically attracted. Categories of sexual orientation typically have included the following:  1) attraction to members of one’s own sex (gay men or lesbians), 2) attraction to members of the other sex (heterosexuals), and 3) attraction to members of both sexes (bisexuals). While these three categories continue to be widely used, more recent research  suggests that sexual orientation does not always appear in such clearly defined categories and instead occurs on a continuum.” (http://www.apa.org/topics/lgbt/transgender.aspx. American Psychological Association. “Answers about gender expression.)
The word gender refers to the attitudes, feelings, and behaviors that a given culture associates with a person’s biological sex. Behavior that is compatible with cultural expectations is referred to as gender-normative; behaviors that are viewed as incompatible with these expectations constitute gender non-conformity. (http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbt/resources/guidelines.aspx. )
                      Transgender as a mythological archetype
The archetypal image of a third gender goes back in time thousands of years, as revealed in Gods/Goddesses worshipped by ancient cultures, such as the multi-gendered God Kybele/Agdistis. A statue of Kybele/Agdistis was found in the Bronze Age capital city Hattusa of the Hittite empire, dating back to at least 2000 BC. Agdistis was an androgynous (Intersexed) god who possessed both male and female sexual organs. According to the myth of Agdistis, she was born from the intercourse of Zeus and the Great Mother, who in the shape of a rock, gave birth to the androgynous Agdistis. This offspring turned out to be pretty malicious.  She (the pronoun chosen by contemporary historians) killed and ravaged everything in sight. She self-castrated as an drunken enactment of a punishment instigated by the wine god Dionysus.  Despite her violent history, there was a huge following of Agdistis from Anatolia, Asia Minor to Greece. As we have already seen, Agdistis  possessed a wild nature and she was also worshipped as a benevolent healing goddess.  This contradiction is congruent with the two-gendered spirit of Agdistis. Both the destructive and healing aspect of the two opposites express the reality of the archetype.  This connection may be what gives the myth/god/goddess a sense of the numinous. 
The worship and cult celebrations dedicated to Aphrodite were executed in such a way that women would wear men’s clothing and the men would dress up as women, swing their hips, and speak with high voices. Aphroditus was associated with the Moon because of his female character. 
These ancient multi-gendered gods carried with them some of the archetypal understanding of wholeness and inclusiveness in the combining of both genders. 
 In Greek mythology, we have another example of transgender forms in the god Tiresias who was transformed into a woman for seven years. This transformation was a punishment by Hera (one of three sisters of Zeus) for beating two mating snakes. To become a woman could be translated as indicative of the patriarchal view that to be female was being less than a man.  Could it also be in interpreted as a chance for Tiresias to learn about his femenine side which would probably not have killed the snakes.  In some versions, Tiresias is known as a famous prostitute as well as a shaman, which is a product of the intuitive Anima psyche. 
The dual nature of the human psyche is revealed in the transgender shaman and also in the archetype of the trickster, which appears among The First People of North America and early in the Norse pantheon of gods in the personification of Loki, the son of the god Farbauti who appeared in the lighting fire of dry tinder. Loki is unpredictable, and destructive just like his father. Sometimes Loki appears dressed as a woman and sometimes as a man. There is no knowing how he or she will show up.  What is known is the trickster creates chaos and trouble. Loki shows up when not invited, drinks other gods’ beer, and through subterfuge, causes the death of the god Balder. (Simek 1984 p.193)
In the Roman pantheon of gods there is the story of Iphis who was the daughter of Telethusa. Because Telethusa’s husband Ligdus wanted a boy, the mother decided to raise her female child as male. It went well for everyone until Lanthe, the daughter of Telestes, fell in love with whom she thought was the young man Iphis. Her love was returned but there could not be a wedding because of the secret circumstances. The solution was for Telethusa to bring Iphis to the temple of Isis.  Here she was miraculously transformed into a man. In this tale we see a complete shift of gender as though it is possible within the psyche to transform from one sex to the other. The question must be asked though, was the transformation in line with Iphis’s own nature or was it a conceit of the gods? 
The Japanese patron of mirrors and stonecutting is the transgender Deity Ishi Kori Dome. Kori Dome is the one who created an exquisite octagon mirror and lured the sun goddess out of her cave to bring light to this world. Again, the magical is connected to the transgender role woven into the mythology. The deity patron’s love of mirrors seems also to reflect the need for her self-reflection. Seeing oneself and being seen is crucial in psyche’s development of the self. The first step in that process is the child finding itself in the mirroring of the mother’s eyes. In the Japanese myth the sun cannot help itself but must come out of the cave to see what shines so wonderfully. It doesn’t know that it is her own reflection. Like the swan in Hans Christian Andersen's fairy tale, The Ugly Duckling, when the swan looks into the water and recognizes herself as a swan, she comes into full existence. 
                                             Archetypal Images. 
Since the advent of Christianity, the worship of multi-gendered deities disappeared in Western culture. So also did the power of the earth mother and the generative feminine.  There is only one reference in the Hebrew scriptures about gender expression.  Found in Leviticus, it states that any man who puts on women's clothing is an abomination to the Lord.  Despite this strong cultural norm, or cultural resistance, I have come to accept that gender expression, in all its plurality, is rooted in the archetypal field, which throughout history and cultures, exists and will always exist as long as there are humans. 
“When an inborn archetypal structure passes into a manifest form of an archetypal fantasy or image, the psyche makes use of impressions from the external surroundings for its mean of expression.” (Von Franz, Marie Louise .Psyche and Matter.1988 p.6.) The image is an expression of the emergence or constellation of the specific archetype, which, in this case, is explored is the androgynous or transgender expression. 
The terra cotta figurines found on Cyprus of the Bearded Goddess from 8th century BC are just another example of how early these archetypal images occur. In her book, The Bearded Goddess, Marie-Louise Winbladh writes extensively about the ancient Greek worship of androgynous Goddesses/Gods.  She quotes Macrobius in the 4th and 5th century AD describing a stature representing the goddess Venus with a beard (Saturnalia III, 8,1-3).  There is also a statue of Venus on Cyprus that is bearded, shaped and dressed like a woman, with scepter and male genitals.  Venus on Cyprus is conceived as both male and female. Aristophanes calls her Aphroditus and Laevitus says, “We worship then, the nurturing god Venus whether she is male or female, just as the Moon is a nurturing goddess.” (Windbladh 2012, p. 57). Atthis Phiochorus also states that she is the Moon and that men sacrifice to her in woman’s dress, and women in men’s because she is held to be both male and female. Throughout ancient history and the literature of the antiquity, there is a clear conception of androgyny in the worship of the Great Goddess. 

                              The Transgender Archetype in our Culture Today
The Williams institute of the University of California published a survey of the number of GLBTQ people living in the US. Published by Gary J. Gates in April 2011.  The survey states there are 697 thousand (about 0.3%) US citizens who describe themselves as transgender. This population lives “outside” the culturally accepted norms of gender, which has a tremendous impact on their lives, the way they are treated and, as stated at the outset of this discussion, they are subjected to discrimination, violence and even murder. 
It is my experience, talking with and being around transgender people, that Western culture still struggles with accepting the concept of a “third gender”.  Where many indigenous cultures have for generations accepted multiple gender expressions, we are just now, in the West, learning about this diversity.  We are often stuck in the idea that there is only one way to express femininity and one way to be a male.  We see this in the images of collective consciousness, which, in our culture, often expresses itself through the fashion industry. Our diversity is diminished by this old way of thinking inside boxes and does little more than keep us locked inside the conflicts of a gender binary society. In this narrowing attitude, one is expected to be fully female or fully male. This binary expectation leaves a very unfortunate void for anyone who does not quite fit into either of the two categories. What we see among many young people today is a refusal to live by these binary gender norms. They want to experiment and not be forced to jump into pre-configured roles. A recent media surprise was the winner of the 2014 Euro Vision song competition. The transgender singer Thomas Neuwirth created herself as Conchita Wurst and performed as female with a full dark beard. Her song and performance won her the gold, brought the audience to their feet, and our culture was another step either closer to a so-called “post gender” world.  Or maybe we are harkening  back to antiquity where the Great Mother was worshipped in androgynous form. Was Conchita giving us an image of the bearded goddess from Cyprus and Carthage? I believe so. In bringing back the Bearded Goddess she expressed the archetypal image in all of its numinosity.  
Unfortunately, this popular progress does not come without some very high sacrifices for the people who walk this emergent road. According to the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention, alarming statistics demonstrate the degree of vulnerability transgender people experience. These are the findings of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey:  a lifetime suicide attempt rate among transgender persons aged eighteen to forty-four of an astounding 45% compared to 4.6% in the heterosexual US population. Surprisingly, the rate is highest between American Indian and Alaska Native of up to 56%, a population that has historically accepted third gender people but is now in the highest percentage range. Up to 57% of transgender people lose all contact with their family after “coming out” and 60% are refused healthcare services when they show up at a clinic. An estimated 61% reported being harassed unprovoked by law enforcement officers and 60-70% experienced physical or sexual violence by law enforcement officers when trying to get help. In the transgender community, 69% of the people are homeless, the majority of this group being teenagers. (Haas, 2014).
These numbers speak for themselves, as do accounts of transgender people in traffic accidents who have experienced ridicule from emergency staff on ambulances or hospitals. This group is often denied access to airplane travel or thrown off the airplanes just before take off, denied access to restaurants, or lose their jobs because of their preferred gender representation. This constitutes a civil right issue.
If to be transgender were something new, then maybe there would be some justification for this cruel treatment. The fact is, however, that opposite or fluid gender manifestations have been with us in every culture since the first humans walked on this planet. This evidence is what supports the conclusion that the expression of gender identity is rooted in the archetypal. It is possible to see its form manifested through time and history.

                                        The Field of Transgender Experience
As a prelude to the next chapter about symbolic and clinical archetypal possession, it is important to understand what actually drives the field of a person, male or female, who consciously enters into the field of the other gender and then is unconsciously flooded with the archetypal mandates. To explore this process, I refer to the movie “The Danish Girl.” One does not have to watch the movie, although I highly recommend it, to understand what is going on with  the main character Einar Wegener. It is enough to watch the trailer for the movie to catch the theme and to see the intense highlights of the story. The trailer reads like a dream understood in the Jungian tradition: exposition, development, crisis and lysis. The first clip shows Einar saying to a person, “The first time we met, she propositioned me.” Einar begins his story led by the feminine. “She was so sure” he continues .This is the exposition. He is not playing the masculine role but rather he is being led on leash into the woman's boudoir. There is no courtship from him, no roses, no nothing.  Only a passive following of Gerda’s needs. She has chosen him. We see them first in the bedroom in a love scene, and then in the studio where he puts on the stockings and the dress. He gets flooded with emotion, sensation and fascination as he dress up in the opposite gender’s clothing. In the book, The Danish Girl, Gerda asks him to pose for him, to put on a pair of stockings and ladies shoes. Shoes, according to Von Franz, are symbols of the standpoint of attitude towards reality.  (Von Franz. 1977. P.21.)  This marks the beginning of his transformation. The shoes fit and so do the stockings. Einar feels the soft fabric of the dress and it is clear from his expression that it resonates with his own longing for the feminine.  He is protrayed as a very effeminate male already. In the trailer, Gerda’s girlfriend interrupts the session where Einar  poses as a woman for his wife’s painting.  She arrives unexpected, walks straight up to Einar and says, “I think we shall call you Lilli.” Notably, he does not choose, but accepts the new name. Einar is immediately flattered and from then on, like turning a page, he is now Lilli Elbe. Entering into the development of the story, he follows the women to a ball the following night. In real life, it takes years for most transgender to reach a state of “passing” in the opposite gender. For a transgender, passing is everything, finally being seen and accepted by the world as the true gender you want to present.
 The kiss brings Einar’s and Gerda’s playfulness to a grinding halt. Gerda begins to understand that she has lost Einar to Lilli. She no longer has a husband. This is the crisis of the story, at least if we look at what the gender shift does for the relationship between them. Gerda helps Einar to become Lilli but does not realize that Lilli is now determined never to go back to be a male or a husband. This is an interesting twist, because although Gerda wanted to have Einar as a husband, she was herself also strongly pulled to the lesbian experience and life style which came to life in her paintings. 
Lilli has been flooded by the female gender archetype and there is no way back for her. The story (and movie) rightfully portrays the disaster as their marriage and relationship slowly falls apart. Lilli leaves the marriage to become a woman full time. Not only in looks, but also in an anatomical sense.  This eventually leads to her death.  When a uterus is being implanted,she dies from internal bleeding. No one can really determine if Einar was born transgender.  It is very possible that she was born intersex and would have been most comfortable as a woman. What is important for the purpose of our discussion is both the archetypal possession as well as the tragic result for Lilli Elbe. 
Archetypal Possession from Symbolic and Clinical Perspectives
When there is no apparent causation i.e. a strong evidence that a client has been born transgendered, the analytical clinical approach to the gender issue at hand is extremely important.  An exploratory clinical stance can prevent a later disastrous outcome for the client; disastrous in the form of self mutilation, castration, or even suicide.  Often people come to a sudden awareness of the attraction for gender change in mid or late life. Maybe transgender exploration is a genuine soul’s call, and maybe it is the result of matriarchal or patriarchal castration surfacing in the psyche. Only a careful evaluation of these factors in the clients life can bring informed knowledge of how tbest to proceed towards fostering wholeness and balance in the client’s life. 
As I have worked with dreams of transgender people who generously have shared them with me, I would advise analysts who work with those in the GLBTQ community to consider working with their dreams.  The dreams give clues as to what is going on in the unconscious of the client. As an example, I will present a dream that a twenty-some year old male dealing with transgender issues shared with me. It is an important dream because it reads like a modern myth or fairy tale. 
I woke up from my bed. It was dimly lit. My room had no windows and the walls were greenish white. I put on my slippers and walked out of my room into the hallway. The decoration of the house was very futuristic. The house is empty, I called out: “Mom? Dad? are you both here?” I felt sad and I don’t know where they are and have not seen them for quite sometime, nor do I have any recollection how they look. All I knew was that I missed them very much. I left the house to look for them. Suddenly I was in a huge place. There were adults all over the place. I couldn’t see the ceiling but there were buildings around and they had polished glass walls/windows. I looked up at a LCD display mounted on the wall. There were blue and red dotted lines that seem to indicate the flight path to other destinations. Before me stood two men. One in officer uniform and the other rather handsome man in a pilot uniform. They were much taller than me, I barely reached their waist. I tugged at their pants looking up at them asking “Do you know where my parents went?”  They looked back and said “I don’t know little girl, but we know that many people are lost in space and we are trying to go and find them. “Go home and look for your parents” the pilot said. Disappointed I turned away. I saw my own reflection in the glass walls. I saw an 8 year old Asian girl with neat shoulder length hair. The reflection gazed back at me sadly. 
The central theme of this dream is not that the dreamer sees himself as a little girl in the reflection on the wall, or that the pilot address him as female, but that there is a clear loss and disconnect with the parents of the dreamer. There are also two male persons and the image of the little girl with no mother. A later dream by the same person revealed that he spent most of his childhood in the shop of his grandparents who did not have much time for him. The unconscious in the dream repeats the question of the whereabout of the parents and points to look for them. The dreamer wanted this dream to be about wanting to be a girl instead of a boy. I believe his view caries some validity, as one recals Marie Louise Von Franz explanation of the symbolic meaning of mirrors in her book “Individuation in Fairy Tales. She states “The mirror is to see one self in the objective form. (p.120). This dream however  is also about other deeper issues issues.  Themes of the hero’s journey, issues of search for guidance, and also coming into consciousness must be exploreed. 
If the appearance of gender dysphoria is caused because of the absence in the upbringing of a father or a mother, a devouring parent, or other castrating family members, there is reason to explore this and not immediately accept the rush toward supporting a change of gender. One is left to wonder how the client has been pushed into the situation they feel they are in? To amplify this theme, it is worth examining from a symbolic point of view. 
A good example of this is the play by Ernst Barlach: “A Dead Day” (Neumann p.165).  The play is about the devouring mother who kills her son’s masculinity by slaying his horse.  The horse is supposed to carry him to victory and self determination. His mythic mother conceived her son by way of the sun-god, who on taking his departure, said he would return when the cild had become a man. He would then evaluate how well she had brought him up.  It is a mythic play about the gods and the impossibility of being raised only by the feminine. The son is torn between the elemental parents above and below. He hears “the sun roaring above the mist”. Transfixed between mother and father, he finally gives in to the domination of the mother, but tries again to leave her. When she kills herself in agony, he is overcome by grief and commits suicide saying “mothers way suits me better after all”. With no paternal blessing, and his denial of father-god, he has no other way than through self-mutilation and death. He is in a sense, as Neumann writes: the Oedipus the vanquished, not the victor. (P.168) 
Another image of patriarchal castration is that of the recurrent characters in the operas of Giuseppe Verdi. For example in the opera “Rigoletto”, we see the portrayal of a  father who acts in the service of the great mother. In the story, he confines the daughter Gilda to the house.  She is only to leave to go to church. In the attempt to shield her from the evils of the world, Rigoletto engages in a psychological incestuous relationship with his daughter. Through plots of jealousy and deceit, it ends in disaster for everyone. The opera is a favorite  of Verdi’s because of his own horrible relationship with his father who faltered him for his success as a composer. In other words, his inspiration is a castrating father figure, a theme which is repeated in several of Verdi’s operas.
My point is that the sons of a devouring father own their impotence to patriarchal castration.  (Neumann p. 189)
When the complex takes over, the ego degenerates into a psychic egocentricity, and the self-obsession is the characteristic result. (P.386). In other words, when the ego gets lost in the archetypal expression of transgenderness, the complex takes over and the person is lost in behavior of egocentricity and concretization which is also evidence of a possession. If the analyst can manage to guide the person who is lost in an egocentric concretization of the opposite gender and guide it towards a partnership with the archetype, there is a possibility for a more holistic life for the client. The main goal to help any person who has been possessed by the archetypal image, is to prevent the self mutilation and self castration the possession advocates . Here I am no longer talking symbolically but concretly. It is a fact that the suicide rate is higher for transgender people who have had gender reassignment surgery than for those who have not. There is however a very strong trend among GLBTQ serving therapists, to act in favor of the rush towards gender reassignment rather than looking at what issues lies behind the gender dysphoria of the client.
As I have stated in this paper, there are two sides to the story. One is the archetypal reality of the transgender image which shows itself and has been generated through time and space. There is also the activation of the complexes when one is overcome by the archetypal possession. This is not an easy subject, and the medical community, including the psychoanalytical, is still at the very beginnings of understanding transgender issues. When a corn plant in mid life all of a sudden changes gender, is it a purtubation of an existing pattern or is it an emergence of a pre existing field? Is the gender change in “The Danish Girl” the result of a psychic pertubation or is it the uncovering of a pre existing gender pattern? My research into the archetypal aspect of gender has told me that it can be either one. On one hand one has to accept the archetypal existence of the transgender reality and on the other look for the result of a perturbation into the life of a human being. That is the confusing or paradoxical reality. Therefore it is of utmost importance in the clinical situation to look for the evidence of either possibility occurring in the patient’s life. It is my intention that this paper shed a bit more light on this complex matter. 



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Wednesday, July 4, 2018

Aan archetypal contemplation on "The Lord's Prayer"



Flemming Oppenhagen Behrend is a graduate from The Assisi International school of Archetypal Pattern Analysis and has since 2016 published articles in archetypal studies in the Assisi Journal. He practice as an archetypal pattern analyst and dream pattern analyst in Olympia WA. www.olympialifepatternanalysis.com & https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/olympia-life-pattern-analysis-llc-olympia-wa/267712
Abstract:
The purpose of this article is to explore the archetypal dimensions of the Lord’s Prayer and to establish a deeper understanding of the questions raised for contemporary readers. My writing is inspired by the Jungian understanding of archetypal content and archetypal pattern analysis, the discipline developed by Dr. Michael Conforti. The article explores what happen when the words of a prayer are no longer vibrant or when there is a loss of meaning. The prayer is explicated from the view of historical tradition, mythology and the form of fairy tales. The effect of the gendered language of the prayer points to the inequality between the masculine and the feminine. 

An archetypal look at the Lord’s prayer 
Our Father, who art in heaven, 
hallowed be thy Name, 
thy kingdom come, 
thy will be done, 
On earth as it is in heaven. 
Give us this day our daily bread. 
And forgive us our trespasses, 
as we forgive those 
Who trespass against us. 
And lead us not into temptation, 
But deliver us from evil. 
For Thine is the kingdom, 
and the power, and the glory, 
For ever and ever. Amen. 
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(KJV) 
The last five years of study under the guidance of Dr. Michael Conforti at the Assisi International Institute for Archetypal Analysis has been a great inspiration and my incentive to write this article. Learning to look at life through a Jungian lens has expanded my understanding of so many aspects of life. I have been pushed to take a new look at my own spirituality and its patterns. This article is one of many reflections I have made on religious practices in general and my own in particular. It is not an attempt to dishonor the Lord’s prayer, but a meditation and an analysis of what is being said and how we can or cannot relate to those words today. Working as an archetypal pattern analyst, I have learned to look at patterns in our lives. I ask the questions about how we function within certain fields of behavior, what comes up and what is repeated, what is generative and what is holding us back from reaching our goals. The areas in our life where life patterns seem to be so obvious are in the fields of religious practice. It is exactly the repetition of sacred rites which makes people feel grounded and safe. 
Thus we look at the celebration of mass, styles and manner of worship, the observation of religious holidays, fasting , etc., to find the meaning of the experiences. C.G. Jung writes on religious rites and why we seek comfort in them and how they can protect us from losing our minds: 
Religious rituals can offer a measure of safety for the psyche in turmoil, as a
direct experience of the unconscious, or of God, can be destructive. When
people have an immediate experience of the numinous and not subject
themselves to the authority of the dogma, they go through periods of
passionate conflicts, panics of madness, desperate confusions and depressions
which were grotesque and terrible at the same time. So I am aware of the extraordinary importance of dogma and ritual, at least as methods of mental
hygiene. Jung, C. G. (1938). Psychology and Religion. London: Yale University Press.1 
I would argue that the religious rites at the same time hinders our growth of consciousness, especially when the rites are stuck in time and the Gods seem to be long gone. In this paper, I am talking about the specific prayer that we, in the Christian church, have repeated for more than two thousand years without much or any change. The Lord’s Prayer, similar to the American constitution or any other collective codex, presents itself as a foundation for a system of thoughts, an “I believe” statement. I am looking at this prayer, which when analyzed, 
raises many questions and inspires me to go deeper and try to understand its significance today. The Lord’s prayer is found in Matthew 6:9-13 - Where Jesus tells his disciples: “This, then, is how you should pray:”
Our Father who art in heaven. 
The famous prayer of Jesus starts with the father image. The creation story of the Hebrew scriptures, however starts interestingly enough with a reference to a plural God image. In Genesis 1:26 according to the Schocken Bible (The five books of Moses) we read: God said “Let us make humankind in our image according to our likeness.” Clearly this is a reference to plural beings. Since it is widely accepted in Judaism and Christianity that God is a ‘He’, the scriptures are ambiguous about the number of gods. To add to the confusion the verse in the first chapter continues, “God created humankind in His image, in the image of God did He create it.” (Genesis 1:27.) In the notes to this verse in the Schocken Bible it reads, “In our image” is an old problem”. Indeed! It creates a problem which Jesus does not at any time address. Nowhere in the gospels is he quoted to talk about a heavenly mother or multiple deities. If we put a gender on God it is only reasonable to think that there must be a feminine as well as a masculine power which together sets the act of creation into motion. This is expressed in the collective unconscious through many cultures for example in an Inuit creation tale where it is said that: The world before this one was resting on two pillars which collapsed and disappeared into emptiness. Then there grew up out of the earth two men; they were born and were grown up all at once, and they wished to beget children. By means of a magic song, one of them was changed into a woman, and they had children. (The  intellectual culture of the iglulik. P.37. Knud Rasmussen. Gyldendahl nordisk forlag 1929). In other words, even what we in the past have called primitive cultures, they inherit a collective understanding that it takes two opposites to make a whole.  The word “Father” directs our attention to the archetype of fatherhood, the masculine, the warrior and protector. The father is the one who teaches us how to navigate the vicissitudes of life. Without the teachings of the generative grandfather and the fathers we are a bit lost in the world. This is also known to the Native American people who go into the sweat lodge to call upon their ancestors. The heated ‘grandfather rock’ is brought into the center and prayers are performed. Erich Neumann writes in The Origin and History of Consciousness about the Heavenly father: The fact that the hero has two fathers or two mothers is a central feature in the canon of the hero myth. Besides his personal father there is a “Higher’ that is to say an archetypal father figure and similarly and archetypal mother figure . (Neumann, year, p.132) 
Jesus recognized the spiritual “Higher” father figure but he did not articulate the necessity of the balancing other force i.e. the “Higher” mother Goddess. 
One has to ask, where is mother God? Two thousand years of Christianity has not answered this question but the Catholic church understood this problem. They put the Virgin Mary as a substitute for God’s wife although she was, of course, traditionally the mother of Jesus who was not yet raised to god-hood. The Vatican in the sixties sought to correct this by giving Mary divine status and a place in the Christian pantheon. Why did Jesus not address the absent mother of the numinous? Obviously, he could not because he was just a human being and a product  of his time. For Jesus, there was no living ‘God Mother’ to be found in the Jewish tradition. They only knew of a male god before whom one should tremble and who one should fear because, as this God himself is quoted to have told Moses, “I am a jealous god”. Jesus understood his God to be a loving father but did not give us the nurture or wisdom of the Sophia, the divine feminine. The beginning of the Lord’s prayer thus puts us all into separation from the nurturing female Goddess. Late in the gospel of John 14:15-31, Jesus speaks about the spirit (the holy spirit) that God is going to send to his disciples. It is, as in all places in the Christian Bible, always male gendered although in the Hebrew language Ruach haChodesh (God’s divine spirit) is definitely feminine. Jesus understood the Ruach as something to come although it already existed in the Jewish religion. What was new, was that Jesus re-activated the Ruach by preaching that it was something “To come”. "When the Helper comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, that is the Spirit of truth who proceeds from the Father, He will testify about Me.” (John 15:26) Note that here it is again translated in male gender although the traditional understanding of the Ruach in the Hebrew scriptures was that of a feminine, a Sofia power. 
Who are in heaven 
In the prayer, God is in ‘Heaven’. Jesus clearly places his God in that other realm outside of our understanding, beyond our consciousness. That is with one exception. In the gospel of
Mark 1:14-15 where Jesus is supposed to have said that “The kingdom of God is within you.” This problem or paradox, that Heaven is outside but now suddenly inside, could have happened because Jesus’ followers wrote 15 different gospels out of which only 4 were canonized. What did the people of that time really mean when they talked about heaven? What did the Jewish Jesus think of when he uttered these words? To understand that, it is interesting to read what rabbi Or. N. Rose who is the associate dean of the rabbinical school at the Hebrew college in Newton MA. says about the Hebrew heaven:
Rabbi Ya’akov taught: This world is compared to an ante-chamber that leads to Olam HaBa, (the World-to-Come)” (Pirkei Avot 4:21). That is, while a righteous person might suffer in this lifetime, he or she will certainly be rewarded in the next world, and that reward will be much greater.
In fact, in some cases, the rabbis claim that the righteous are made to suffer in this world so that their reward will be that much greater in the next
https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/heaven-and-hell-in-jewish-tradition/ 
In the same blog, Rabbi Or. N. Rose also writes that the concept of heaven was more important after the destruction of the temple, i.e., after the life of Jesus, when the Jews needed a new vision and hope. At the time of Jesus, however, the Jewish people most likely referred to heaven as some otherworldly place, a paradise not of this world. C. G. Jung writes about the archetype of heaven: “The starry vault of heaven is in truth the open book of cosmic projection, in which are reflected the mythologies, i.e., the archetypes. In this vision astrology and alchemy, the two classical functionaries of the psychology of the collective unconscious, join hands”. Carl Jung, CW 8, The Structure and Dynamics of the Psyche, Page 195, Para 392. 
Jesus most likely must have heard the Rabbis of his time talk about heaven in these terms and then related it to his followers. An undefined heaven remains a total abstract which unfortunately is stuck in the projection of something outside of ourselves, beyond our human understanding. According to a 2002 Newsweek poll, 76 percent of Americans believe that heaven exists and, of those, 71 percent think it is an actual place, 13 percent think it is like a garden, 13 percent says it looks like a city, only17 percent admit that they don't know. The rabbis use the term Olam Ha-Ba to refer to a heaven-like afterlife as well as to the messianic era or the age of resurrection, and it is often difficult to know which one is being referred to. When the Talmud does speak of Olam Ha-Ba in connection to the afterlife, it often uses it interchangeably with the term Gan Eden (“the Garden of Eden”), referring to a heavenly realm where souls reside after physical death. Clearly, most Americans believe Heaven is a place, but there is no clearly no consensus as to what that heaven looks like or where it is. The closest explanation I find acceptable is in the explanation of parallel universes. Erin Macdonald, astrophysicist, engineer and self-proclaimed "massive sci-fi nerd," explained during a panel on Saturday (June 17.2017) at Future Con, a festival that highlighted the intersection between science, technology and science fiction in Washington, D.C. [Top 5 Reasons We May Live in a Multiverse] 
Our universe exists within the fabric of space-time — 3D space combined with time, to create a 4D continuum, explained Macdonald. But scientists can't say for sure what space-time looks like, which means it might hold countless universes that are invisible to us, she said. This could be a “New science” way of explaining our limited understanding of Heaven as a place. A place parallel to but beyond our current understanding of time and space
Hallowed be thy name. 
The name of God in Judaism is traditionally so holy that it cannot even be verbalized. Rabbinical Judaism teaches that the name is forbidden to all except the High Priest, who should only speak it in the Holy of Holies of the Temple in Jerusalem on Yom Kippur. In other words, the priesthood took on the power of saying the name of God. It was taken away from common people and further distanced the godhead from the worshipers in the Jewish tradition. That is most likely why Jesus said “Our father” instead of uttering God’s name directly. Saying God’s name Jahwe would have been blasphemy and Jesus, despite being a rebbe was aware of what was tolerated in his time when it came to addressing God. Jesus did however provoke the priesthood by transforming the unspoken and unreachable into a more direct relationship with a loving father figure. One does have to repeat the question, if he was the son of this father god of Israel, why did he not have any knowledge of a Mother God?
The text in the prayer is still only directed towards the male, the masculine god and that’s a weakness since the ultimate mystery cannot really in our present time be understood as singular gendered. If it is gendered then we would be in the pagan realm of multiple gods. That is not acceptable in the Christian tradition except of course for the notion of the trinity. Here God is taught to be “One” despite being three which is hard to grasp. In Greek antiquity Gods often had dual gender as for example Cybele Agdistis and Tiresias to name a few. In the pagan Norse, the God Odin would appear as a woman when needed. People clearly understood the importance of their gods being both male or female and sometimes both. 
Your kingdom come.
The kingdom is mentioned in the beginning and in the end of the prayer. It is a doubling of a theme. It is a way of saying: This starts and ends with the King. The three words put us in the mood of a fairy tale. The good king who rules with justice and wisdom and as a result all the people of the kingdom live in happiness and safety forever after. Unfortunately, we still miss the notion of a queen who would be the force of nurture and wisdom, the Sofia in the constellation. In the Hebrew Scriptures (the proverbs) there is however a clear reference to the feminine wisdom which was not mentioned by Jesus. Wisdom (Sofia) addressed human beings: 
The Lord possessed me at the beginning of His way, Before His works of old.I have been established from everlasting, From the beginning, before there was ever an earth.  When there were no depths I was brought forth, When there were no fountains abounding with water. Before the mountains were settled, Before the hills, I was brought forth;  While as yet He had not made the earth or the fields, Or the primal dust of the world.  When He prepared the heavens, I was there,When He drew a circle on the face of the deep,  When He established the clouds above,When He strengthened the fountains of the deep, When He assigned to the sea its limit, So that the waters would not transgress His command, When He marked out the foundations of the earth, Then I was beside Him as a master craftsman; And I was daily His delight, Rejoicing always before Him, (The new King James version Prov. 8:2-30)  

The embrace of the feminine wisdom was to be hidden for generations of women to come. This king that Jesus believed in, as in the fairy tale, gives him half of the kingdom (after he is first sacrificed to save the human race). Now this naturally must raise a new question. What kind of father would really put his son up to die on a cross? Is it a sacrifice of this God or is it plain murder of the son. Sacrifice is normally understood as someone giving something up for and by themselves. Is the archetypal king threatened by the son? The son does not dethrone the father but gives himself up to the hands of the prosecutors as an example of good behavior, of being the good son. We are left with Jesus saying (King James Bible) , “From that time forth began Jesus to shew unto his disciples, how that he must go unto Jerusalem, and suffer many things of the elders and chief priests and scribes, and be killed, and be raised again the third day.” (Matthew 20:17)
In the story of Abraham and Isaac, an angel intercedes in the brutal murder and offering of Abraham’s son, Isaac. Abraham so wanted to be a ‘good man’ in the eyes of God and was willing to kill his own son. Today we would doubt the sanity of a person who was willing to kill of their own child because they thought God asked them to do so. I recall a brilliant lecture on this story by Rise Kaufmann, PhD at the Assisi Institute in 2015 where she argued that there are times when you need to say NO to God and that the moral right thing for Abraham would have been to say no to killing his own son, despite the consequences. I also remember that some people in the audience became very upset by this statement. In the story of Jesus, no angels come to the rescue. Abraham ended up not killing his own son but the heavenly father in the story of Jesus does not intercept or send any angels. Why? Who would not reject such a father? It does not make any sense since clearly, because humanity despite the sacrifice of Jesus struggled on for another 2000 years killing each other in more and more sophisticated ways, contrary to the message of love brought to us by the heavenly son. The religious arguments raised for and against Christian dogmas related to the story of Jesus resulted in the 30 year wars. It was a war fought primarily in Central Europe between 1618 and 1648. One of the longest and most destructive conflicts in human history, as well as the deadliest European religious war in history. It resulted in eight million fatalities. It is hard to relate to this story about the 30 year war 
other than in a fairytale kind of way especially if one compares it with many other cultures on this planet which also developed mythologies around a pantheon of gods and were willing to go to war for it. 
This also makes the story archetypal. The universal need for humanity to project onto a God and make it theirs. It is, as Marie Louise Von Franz writes about in The Grail Legend: On a higher level than the mythological or the childish, the same idea is expressed when the unknown father is considered as being a spiritual divine being or principle. This idea is particularly expressed in Christ the son of God and man. It is evident that this concept means a great deal more than just a support in life or an infantile fantasy. It expresses in itself the fundamental and ineradicable feeling that something dwells in man which is more than purely human or animal, namely an immortal soul or a divine spark. (P.48): The story of this “Spark” or archetypal kingdom seems at least controversial and it raise a lot of questions about this divine king.
Thy will be done on earth,
As it is in heaven. 
How do we use this statement? If we look at it collectively it becomes dangerous. What happens when a religion tells its followers that God has a specific plan with them? We saw that in the story of Jonestown on November 18, 1978, when 909 members of a sect drank cyanide. The Mormons went into great suffering in the wilderness before building Salt Lake City because, according to Joseph Smith, it was a part of God’s plan. Whenever we project our own ideas unto God in a collective way, we are in trouble. There are, however, other ways to communicate with the holy according to the Swiss psychologist Carl Jung. In accessing the unconscious in our own being by listening to our dreams we have an inner connection to the numinous. We know this phenomenon whenever we are in doubt about something and we start listening to what our psyche is trying to tell us. We seek the inner balance of the pros and cons of a problem as we listen to our inner voice of reason. Humans are archetypically spiritual beings and we search for meaning and guidance in our lives. We don’t know how God’s will is being executed in Heaven and we will probably never know, but we can individually search for the inspiration from what we call holy in our own self. This shift from the collective ‘knowing” to the personal makes it a safe exploration because we have to be accountable for our own visions and beliefs. This is, yes, an act of faith or spirituality which is difficult to explain other than with psychological lenses or through an archetypal understanding of the human soul’s search for truth and meaning. 
Give us today our daily bread. 
I see people lying on the streets in my small town and it breaks my heart. They don’t know who to turn to and they succumb to all kind of illnesses because of their life on the cold streets. The government has abandoned them and it seems, so has their God. They sleep in doorways on the ice- cold concrete. For them, that is their everyday reality. They sit in the pouring rain with small signs asking for handouts and they have clearly given up on receiving anything from above. Yet, asking the holy for a helping hand is archetypal. The Inuit hunter asks the spirits of the seal for help when they go hunting and the fishermen in Italy have their Saint Andrew. We stretch out our arms and hope for the best. That is as old as the history of humankind. I find this sentence the most forgiving in the Lord’s Prayer. Social injustices is something we, or I myself am responsible for. It is up to us to change the plight of the downtrodden. 
However, it is archetypically correct and understandable to kneel down for that which is bigger than we are and ask for some wind in our sails or for some goodness to come our way. Whatever the holy is, I have heard it expressed like this “The holy is that which brings us to our knees.” 
Forgive us our trespasses
 as we forgive those who trespass against us. 
I am a firm believer that if I have caused someone harm it is up to me to ask them to forgive me and not project the forgiveness onto some Godhead. Remember the opening sentence: Our father who art in heaven. If I have caused harm I need to humble myself not to a God in heaven, but to the person I have harmed. I can hope for redemption but it is not a given. It is not a given because it is grace.  I can pray for this grace but it will not be mine to bestow. To let God forgive us instead of those we hurt, we are navigating around the problem of what we have inflicted. The idea in the prayer is that if I forgive then I will be forgiven. In real life, however, it does not always work like that. One can read the Bible and find arguments for both being forgiving as well as slaying your enemies. In Leviticus 26.7: “You shall chase your enemies and they shall fall before you by the sword.” Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount is encouraging the peaceful solutions: “Happy are the peacemakers, because they shall be called Sons of God. (Mathew 5:3-12) It is really up to each individual being to decide what to do from a collective moral aspect when being wronged. Besides, there are trespasses which should not be forgiven, such as: sexual abuse of children, spousal abuse, or killing somebody or some thousand somebodies. Or how about 5 million Jews? Or any other ethnic cleansing atrocity. If my family got gassed in the Nazi concentration camps should I forgive the perpetrator? I don’t think so! This is the problem of believing that a God sent his only son to die for the sins of the world. Two thousand years of military conflict and continuously human suffering does not show the success of that idea. As humans we have collectively failed to walk the path of peace, and no sacrifice from any gods in the pantheon of the Pagan or the Christian world has changed that, unfortunately. Having said that, of course it is a noble thing to forgive, but as in grace, it is not a given.
Lead us not into temptation 
I have to ask why any god or goddess would occupy themselves with 4 billion people’s daily lives playing the trickster. Why would the gods want to lure us into sinful acts? Isn’t the holy there to call us into glory, inspiring us to do good and just acts, to be courageous and stand up for the weak? Is any God really there to put something irresistible in front of us just to see if we pass or fail? Is God out to incriminate us? Is entrapment one of God’s ideas? It does not seem to be believable. Since we have developed a thinking function, it is probably up to our sound judgement to figure out what is appropriate and helpful in any situation and to judge what is right or wrong to do. Sound old psychology states that we get further with sugar than with vinegar. You are more happy when you love than when you hate. It’s healthier to smile than to frown. That is not reserved for people of the Christian faith. We seem to project the core act of temptation to a snake who lured the first woman to eat a forbidden apple. Since then, women in the Christian tradition have been looked upon as unreliable. After all, it was a woman who handed the apple from the tree of wisdom to a man right! That she gives wisdom (The gift of knowledge) to the man seems right but that she should be punished for it, not so right. Women are leading the men into temptation and men project the core reason for getting into trouble onto the female. The story of how God actually tempted his own children using a snake and a woman is an example of how ancient stories can be anything but generative. 
Carl Jung writes about our projection of evil unto the feminine: 
Since [in the Middle Ages] the psychic relation to woman was expressed in the 
collective worship of Mary, the image of woman lost a value to which human beings had a natural right. This value could find its natural expression only through individual choice, and it sank into the unconscious when the individual form of expression was replaced by a collective one. In the unconscious the image of woman received an energy charge that activated the archaic and infantile dominants. And since all unconscious contents, when activated by dissociated libido, are projected upon the external object, the devaluation of the real woman was compensated by daemonic features. She no longer appeared as an object of love, but as a persecutor or witch. The consequence of increasing Mariolatry was the witch hunt, that indelible blot on the later Middle Ages. (• Volume 8: Structure & Dynamics of the Psyche, The Collected Works of C. G. Jung (1969)
The female temptress is a Hebrew/Christian archetypal invention which is still with us today and which is used by men as an excuse to assert their power over the feminine. Although archetypes cannot be invented if they are not existent it is fair to say that a repeated projection originating in a religious practice makes it seem invented.  In the islamic world the men have put a veil over the female in order that their beauty should not lead the men into temptation as in sinful thoughts or acts. Interesting enough, there is no place in the Koran where it is written if or how a woman should cover herself. This is an outrageous objectifying and brutalization of the feminine which is caused by cultural collective medieval religious practice. 
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Deliver (save) us from evil. 
That is a beautiful thought. I would personally be very happy if the powerful politicians who are in the hands of big money took all their nuclear arms and pledged that they would never make another bomb and destroy those they already have. I would like to be saved from losing my wife, being fired from my job, be homeless or see anyone I love be in pain. Please save me from getting old and die in misery or from seeing my relatives become victims of random violence. That is the one part of the Lord’s prayer that I can wholeheartedly understand and subscribe to even if it is the case that bad things happens after all. The fact is that evil exists in this world and we are so lucky if we are spared the horror of evil. So we hope and pray that we will not encounter evil. This part of the prayer to me, makes up for all the other lines which to me seem so difficult to accept. 
For thine is the kingdom,
and the power, and the glory,
for ever and ever. Amen.
We are back in fairytale kingdom with the lonesome king siting on the throne holding the orb and the sceptre as seen painted unto the walls of old churches. This image of the sceptre goes back to the Egyptian rulers . One of the earliest royal sceptres was discovered in the 2nd Dynasty tomb of Khasekhemwy in Abydos.
In the  Hebrew scriptures in the book of Esther, there is a description of the sceptre of the King of Persia. "When the king saw Esther the queen standing in the court, she obtained favor in his sight; and the king held out to Esther the golden sceptre that was in his hand. So Esther came near, and touched the top of the scepter.” (Esther 5:2)
Moses also used the symbolic sceptre or staff when he hit the rock to provide water for his people and he is mostly shown holding a staff as the symbol of power. Napoleon used it at his crowning to become emperor of France. The king holds the world symbolized by the orb in his hands, and uses the magic sceptre to command his people. That is the vision of a God king who rules with unrestricted power. “As above so below” is the image we humans project unto the God figures. In order to christen the ‘heathen’ Scandinavians, the Christian missionaries changed the image of the suffering Jesus on the cross to a king figure standing, not helplessly hanging, victoriously on the cross. Only by bringing a king image to the Vikings could they be persuaded to take on the new religion of Christianity. It was a very smart political move and it worked. 
The Christians submit themselves to this king, his kingdom and to the power they project unto him. This power is supposed to go on forever or at least until the end of the world where light and shadow is separated and the son is supposed to come back, no longer sacrificed but glorified. Beyond that, there are no further plans for the planet and the prayer ends with the word : Amen which is from Hebrew ' āmēn ‘truth, or certainty,’ The word may have its origins in the Egyptian god Amun, which is also sometimes spelled: Amen. Today, the word it is mostly meant as “so be it.” The end of the fairytale is the final word, just as it is in the Norse Mythology where the world ends with the battle of the gods at Ragnarok and everything comes to a crashing apocalyptic finale. Any good story, any fairy tale has an intriguing beginning and a captivating end. That is also true for The Lord’s Prayer when analyzed as an archetypal tale. 
The Lord’s prayer thus can be looked upon with the eyes of Marie Louise Von Franz, as a fairy tale. At least it has a somewhat both dramatic as well as a happy ending for the believers. However, the projections unto a remote male deity are just that, projections from our own psyches that may have no real hook. There is the just the king and his son who first has to go through so many bad things and even being sacrificed (killed off) by the father. Luckily, everything turns out well for Jesus in the end. He is at home with the heavenly family in the ever lasting kingdom which the good king then shares with his son. The problem is that there is too much masculine and no feminine to be found anywhere. Three men and no women! There is an imbalance, and because the feminine is lacking, it results in a catastrophic outcome for past and future generations of female believers in the Christian faith. It is tempting to ask if words cannot be changed, if the feminine could not be incorporated into such a central prayer in the Christian tradition? When religious rites are locked or stagnated, it leaves the chance for the gods to leave. When the words no longer relates to the worshippers needs, the words become meaningless. It is like walking into an old stone church and looking at the dusty sarcophagus with long gone noblemen and women or pictures of forgotten saints who are no longer relevant to us. If God or the Numinous is what Jung understood as the source of energy within the psyche then the believer has to be able to analyze the content of the Lords prayer and go beyond and even change it. I would suggest, to also incorporate the feminine aspect of our deep psyche into the prayer. I would even suggest that this prayer should no longer be recited, or at least modified, as it’s vocabulary is no longer useful for a contemporary congregation. 


Reference 
Jung, C. G. (1938). Psychology and Religion. London: Yale University Press.1 
Carl Jung, CW 8, The Structure and Dynamics of the Psyche, Page 195, Para 392
Genesis 1/26 according to the Schocken bible (The five books of Moses)
Erich Neumann writes in The Origin and History of Consciousness P.132
Rabi Or.N. Rose https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/heaven-and-hell-in-jewish-tradition/ 
(The  intellectual culture of the iglulik. P.37. Knud Rasmussen. Gyldendahl nordisk forlag 1929)

Emma Jung/Marie Louise Von Franz. The Grail Legend. Princeton University Press 1998 (P.48)